Society is increasingly confronted with the phenomenon of betrayal in the couple, considering it as a social phenomenon not so taboo.
Sociologists reveal many of its causes, a part of which is universal. There are many reasons why couple partners betray. Some in light betrayal and others in dramatic treachery.
But how should she understand it? As a natural reality, as a remedy of love or as a personal defeat?
In our minds and cultures betrayal has a negative burden: not in vain Dante Aligeri in “Divine Comedy” degrades the two betrayers Paul and Francesca in the district of Hell.
But it is not always said that betrayal is always “negative.” Although statistics show that over 70 percent of people are betraying, it can be read that “if we are not the betrayal, then it is our partner.” .
Among the many questions asked by couples about the key factor in a love relationship, the answer seems to be unique. It is the same although people are of different characters and minds. Faith and loyalty.
This is what partners require from each other. Betrayal is the darkest side of any feeling and relationship. The most delicate metering unit that expresses the true values of a report.
But how close and distant is it, even when partners are thought to be in the most ideal conditions of a love? How threatening is the unbelievable factor in complex and opposing love situations? Are positive effects seen beyond the “drama” phenomenon?
What are the paths in which light or problematic betrayal appear to be? Even though only one is guilty of guilty is the only one who has to afford it?
These are many issues that are directly related to the widespread philosophy of betrayal. Numerous reasons that lead to different dilemmas.
Passion, anger, revenge, self-esteem, security, and revolt are all these components that seem to encourage the same reaction, betrayal.
The dark side of love
Betrayal is what many couples seem to fear most during their coexistence. It is the darkest side of a love affair, followed by pain, disappointment, suffering, constant fear, loss of faith, anger, and anxiety.
She is more rightly called the “perfect” fraud to do when she does not expect it. Comes unexpectedly and senselessly in a scary way and fled with deep traces of conscience, stealing the smile in the most unfair way.
It’s the cost that ironically pays. This is the perception that can be described about the different dramas that are experienced daily among many Albanian stories.
Circumstances may be different but often unclear. A boy about the age of 25 is related to a married woman, this 31-year-old with 2 children. Up to this, one might think that both of them are just sex-related, since there is no love between them, but the wonder is that this person has a 21-year-old girlfriend.
In fact these are stories that happen every day. There are stories where everyone can find a little bit of themselves and realize that although their relationship seems to be well worn, betrayal can appear when you do not expect it or think about it.
Why does betrayal happen?
This is one of the questions whose response is truly complex. Of course, within the dark walls of the inevitable drama there must be strong foundations to get there.
According to renowned psychoanalyst Zigmund Froid, what leads to betrayal is the monotony that arises in a certain relationship. Even though a couple seems to have a good and positive relationship, they often feel that they lack the desire to experience new sensations to break the prevailing monotony.
Those who take the initiative more easily in these kinds of situations seem to be males. This is also explained by their biological and psychological nature. In the male is a very developed desire to experience multiple sexual sensations that in terms of medicine is defined as “libido”, otherwise called “sexual hunger”.
While this kind of situation in women is much more controlled. They are somewhat more self-contained and more “reasonable”. Therefore, even after many divisions that both men and women can suffer, often men find it easier to create a new report. They are cheaper to experience new emotions.
Consequently, they are adopted very easily against the various adventures they undertake. Another reason leading to the unwanted phenomenon is simply for the sake of a stronger love or passion that arises.
This usually happens to women who, if they betray, do so because they have found a very strong and persuasive emotion after which they would be willing to pay for “everything.”
Even with the loss of a long love relationship they may have had. They can easily replace emotions, but only when they realize that they experience an emotion